Bodyshaming, why do some people always have to pick on others …

Of course, I’m aware of all that “Bodyshaming”-Notifications the past days, weeks and month. Here is a model that speaks about unrealistic beauty ideals, another model gets called fat on social media. A “Comedian” which makes fun about opulent People …

As I already wrote down my point of few (in German), I didn’t want to write about this again and again … But now News from England caught my attention … and I had to write about it, when people are insulted and discriminated, because of their body …

In England seems to be a problem with obese People, every third Teenager as well 21% of men and 23.5 % of women have overweight. While British Government thinks about a 20% “sugar tax”, a “mob”, which calls itself “Haters of Overweight” has formed.

Those People are running around in Subway Station and hand out Cards to opulent People which States: “You are a fat, ugly human being” …. “We don’t like the enormous quantities of food that you consume while half of the world suffering from hunger” … “We deplore the waste of NHS funds for the treatment of your selfish greed” … Not affected people shows sympathy with the victims using Twitter. A young man reports of a woman who received such a card. At First she was speechless, looked lost and finally broke down to tears. If I think about my office, and my closes Co-workers in it, I see 5 different types of woman. One has the same size like me and three or four kilos more than me. The two Ladies next door, one a bit opulent the other one of slight build. And of course the “Amazon” across the floor very tall and a bit “bigger” but with a well-trained body… She reminds me a bit of Marilyn Monroe, which had never looked that good, if she would have been skinnier and also had a well-trained body …

I also remember a Co-worker in my past working place which seemed much more attractive to me, before she lost some weight.

Everyone is different and just as we have different hairstyles, eyebrows and clothes, some people looks opulent better.

I don’t deny that overweight, but underweight as well, lead to health problems. However to take this state as argument I find reprehensible. If that “mob” really cares about relief of health care systems, they should never leave their homes, everywhere is on sick person in an office (I mean people having a cold for example) … Most of accidents happen during household chores or doing hobbies … Yes, that accidents burdens the health care system too ….

It’s also a stereotype to think opulent people eats more, lots of them have a metabolic or other disease. You could say, they gain weight drinking water … Anyway hurting opulent people in their soul will not solve any problem, but could cause more …
And dear “Activists” I’m curious how many food you are flushing down the toilet or throw in the garbage? That also happen to me, a person who thinks she is aware of people suffering from hunger and only buys what she needs that exact day … and in worst case have “dog-eating-machines”…

And at the end of the day, people no matter if opulent or not can always motivate themselves and lose some weight, even if it’s not that easy with a metabolic or other diseases …

But you “Activists” cannot lose your ugliness inside you that easily … I am a European S or XS (because of a metabolic diseases, which sometimes burdens the health care system) but I rather like and love people which are may opulent but beautiful inside …

A skinny person which is ugly inside will always be ugly to me …

May you look at that video, that shows what a compliment does with a person before you “Activists” go out the next time … I love that Project of Shea Glove. She takes students from her school aside for a Film-Project, after the students ask her what they shall do, Shea says nothing because she’s only filming things she finds beautiful: (Shea Glove is my Hero today)

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